I am 43 years old. My wife and I have already been together for seventeen years. Not long ago I recognized that we identify as male. I've very long presented actually being a female that is genderqueer. Once I explained my emotions to my cis male partner he unveiled that he's perhaps not drawn to males. He will not mind or maybe prefers a female that is genderqueer-presenting but he informs me the "physique" has to be feminine. There were psychological exchanges between us about any of it. We should remain together but my real presentation is now a problem. The important thing being that i do want to be actually male. He's warned me personally if I become physically male that he will no longer feel attracted to me sexually. We'd be just loving coparents and good friends in the place of loving coparents and partners that are sexual. I've difficulty thinking that anyone actually could possibly be entirely interested in only one real presentation kind absent societal stress.
He's less adventurous regarding intercourse than me personally and appears to have significantly less of a sexual drive than me personally additionally. (más…)